My wife and I have been living an increasingly Fem-domme marriage for the past 8 months, since our younger child left home for college. It has been an increasingly thrilling but challenging journey for me, with cuckolding now very much part of our lifestyle.
We’re both mid-forties and we have been married 22 years. Before we had our two children we played with bondage and spanking, but our sex life was pretty vanilla for many years. Work, kids, tiredness (her), masturbation (me), all the usual things got in the way of us having sex together more than once or twice a week.
About a year ago we began discussing how to take advantage our kids growing up by adding more energy not just to our sex life but to our relationship. My wife was as keen as I was to explore a Female-led marriage. She didn’t need persuading unlike some. We did a lot of research online, together and separately, so we could be totally honest about what turned us on, and off.
We started slow with the usual; more housework and service to her for me, more freedom and indulgence for her. I prefer shorter, intense play sessions, while she wants more of a gentle but permanent lifestyle. I enjoy being tied up, face sitting, caning, while she prefers mental control to physical punishment. Although all final decisions are hers, she indulges me too. It’s a compromise.
The single most important change has been my chastity. We purchased several devices online but the most successful by far has been a Steelwerx Extreme cock cage. I can wear it 24/7 discreetly under clothes, without chafing or hygiene problems, and it prevents erections and orgasms. The whole thing wouldn’t work for either of us if it wasn’t 100% effective.
I had fantasised about chastity for years but living the reality has been an extraordinary experience. The very thing that turns me on denies me pleasure, at least as far as getting an orgasm is concerned. Although concerned deep down about my wellbeing, my wife has greatly enjoyed the power of total control, the mind fucks she can play on me, and the resulting obedience she can demand of me.
Until last Christmas, she was faithful to my tongue and fingers and her vibrators. She also enjoyed sex with me where I had to fuck her without me having an orgasm. But we’d discussed cuckolding at the start and both hoped it was a destination we’d reach sooner or later. It was a question of when and who, not if.
The obstacle was that my wife was simply not prepared to try the internet to meet a guy. I would have tried it but wasn’t too keen either. To be honest, I was more excited by her meeting somebody locally, at her part-time work or a bar, than some random bull online. As often happens, fate took a hand and a couple we know separated last November. My wife and Jim had always been friendly and in January she started seeing him. She wasn’t interested in me watching her initially and she was too embarrassed to tell him the whole story, so it began as an affair. Also, we all know people in common so it had to be secret.
My wife was a virgin when we met, while I’d had a few girlfriends before her. Although that inequality had never been a problem in our relationship, I know that part of the attraction of cuckolding for her was righting that ‘wrong’. Deep down it felt even harder for me to sacrifice the reality I’d been her only lover, although it was what I wanted as well. I wasn’t insecure about my size or technique, but it still made me realise she’d now be making comparisons.
Having been married for a long time himself, Jim had a lot of pent up energy to share with her. They were soon fucking like rabbits, in the hotel room he’d moved into, in his car, and soon enough in our bed. They began using condoms but quickly dispensed with them as both my wife and Jim had been monogamous for over twenty years. He is good looking, charming, fit and hung. My wife was in heaven. Her libido hadn’t been so hot since our honeymoon.
It was what I’d asked for of course, what I wanted, but it wasn’t easy. What’s more, her new found confidence and lust made her more dominant with me. She took teasing and denial to a new level. On Valentine’s Day in February she took Jim to lunch and told him about us, that their affair was actually with my knowledge. At first, he was apparently a bit pissed off about the lie but he quickly got into the opportunity. Jim and I were not close friends, nor enemies, just social mates. It intrigued him to be fucking a mate’s wife. My wife was thrilled she’d got it out in the open.
My own Valentine’s Day booking for us that evening was taken by Jim and my wife, in the first of many cruel but thrilling humiliations she has come up with. Although they have continued to be careful and discreet about Jim, in other ways my wife’s dominance of me has become much more open and public. My mates and even work colleagues have noticed it and say how much I’m under her thumb nowadays.
Jim encouraged my wife to feel she can have other boyfriends than just him. They are using condoms again and he is starting to look for a proper girlfriend now, although they have agreed to continue as friends with benefits. Two weeks ago my wife had a two-night stand with an American guy who was over on business. That was another important milestone in her journey to being a hot wife.
We both know this is a genie that can’t be put back in the bottle. At 43, she says she has to make up fast for lost time. She has all kinds of ambitions now, from being a cougar to a younger guy, to having a threesome with two guys other than me, to trying black, and a Frenchman, and an Italian.
All this has made our love stronger and more exciting, as we hoped it would. I don’t get off on being a sissy or considered a wimp. I do get off on being a good househusband and no longer masturbating. For example, I’m writing this today with her knowledge and I’m locked in steel. I doubt I’ll get to cum this weekend.
The screwdriver-key to my Steelwerx is often kept by Jim if it’s only 2-3 days (we have an emergency spare). My wife enjoys the decision about my orgasms being taken out of her hands. Then we know I won’t cum at least for another 72 hours until she next sees Jim. Cunnilingus was not a big part of our sex life before. This wasn’t because she didn’t enjoy it. It was partly because she sometimes got a thrush infection afterwards from my bacteria and partly because she felt obliged to reciprocate by sucking me. Nowadays, so long as I’m very careful with tooth brushing and mouthwash beforehand, she can enjoy cunnilingus or analingus for long periods without any worries at all. She still likes me to penetrate her occasionally if she has my key, but only for a few moments now, so she can tease me about what I’m missing. Otherwise, we kiss, talk, cuddle and play more than we have done in years.
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