Hi Everyone,
when I started looking for help in how to approach this very delicate subject with my wife whom I love, there were not a lot of places I found for advice, sure lots of stories and photos but not a lot of straight forward advice...I want to share mine so it might help someone out there with their wife, at least to get a discussion going
We've been married for 20 years and are in our late 30s early 40s...our sex life was loving and tender but quite dull and devoid of excitement...my wife and I talked about swinging but nothing came of it and I felt very frustrated, I wanted the hot sexually wild girl that she used to be in her late teens and early 20s and I wanted to bring that back...here's how I did it
I started complimenting her all the time, this boosted her confidence and I meant every word of it, she's a beautiful woman...when we were having sex I would always talk about how good she was at the various things she was doing, especially orally and with her hands, as I told her how great she was I would say things like 'you LOVE sucking cock, don't you" "when it's been a few days you think about it all the time" as she get hornier and hornier she would start saying things like "yes, I'm a little slut who loves cock" etc...I went on a trip a year or so ago for my job, I was only gone for a week but I would bring that up during sex "I bet you were so lonely that week, thinking ALL KINDS of thoughts"
eventually I noticed she only got turned on when I spoke to her in terms of loving cock, masturbating and thinking dirty thoughts, when she would talk about 'us' I would pull back a little and get very hot for her again when talking in the regards of random cock...she learned that her pleasure came from thinking of random cock and I was very proud
that's important, I would tell her how proud of her I was when she dressed sexy and flirted or was especially sexually skillful
one night I asked her if she thought of having sex with other men like she used to before we were married, she was very shy and shut down, but she thought about it...a few nights later, I again re-enforced how proud I was and she told me she did think about it
I said, let's work on this, I want to make you a sexy little slut...she was very turned on and agreed...we started by me explaining I was going to withdraw sexually but I still loved her, I just wanted to recondition her mind sexually...I wanted her to masturbate to orgasm with fingers or toys but only while thinking of other men...it was hard for her at first, she was shy and embarrassed but over time (a few nights) she learned to love it
next, I encouraged her to call phone sex lines, I encouraged her and praised her for being very skilled...
she did very well with this
I then asked her if she'd like to sign up for an account with a sexual dating site, she agreed...I told her to pick out her favorite guys (3) and have phone sex with them and make sure to masturbate to orgasm every time...
over time I asked her to pick her favorite to meet in a safe place
she did, I dressed her for her date and told her to not have sex on the first date (to take away ALL pressure) but if she felt like it, making out or a handjob would be okay
that night she came home, said they made out in his car and she gave him a handjob...she LOVED it and was SO horny, we had the best sex EVER
she wanted to see him again, this time I told her she could have as much sex as she wanted
that final barrier is what did it, once she found out she was free to enjoy sex like that outside of marriage and still have my love and support at home it changed our lives forever
my wife IS the sexy slut she used to be and I couldn't be prouder!
Feel free to share your own tips and stories
thanks and take care !!!!
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