As regards cuckoldry, you're MORE than halfway there already, so why your reluctance?! Your wife & you openly talk about her maybe having a white man as a lover, & for you to facilitate their lovemaking by sucking his cock, & licking his bum crack---OK, your situation at present may not be perfect, but that's more a logistical issue which can be easily solved (maybe his place, maybe a hotel room, maybe go on holiday together the 3 of you?)
I would suggest you show her porn videos featuring indian women with white men; there are plenty around, stating that in most of those videos, the guy filming the action was in most probability the Indian husband of the Indian woman being serviced, calling the husband a 'cuckold' & his wife a 'cuckoldress'!
Ofcourse, being Indian, discretion is of utmost importance, as the stigma could be awful if it was found out that your lovely missus was being regularly fucked by a white man; & MORE so, if it was also known that you watched & did a masturbate; maybe even a BIGGER stigma than if it was discovered that you had 'gay desires' towards a white man, & would rim him, or suck his white cock!
I'm an Indian cuckold myself, but the difference is that whereas YOUR cuckoldry would be called 'INTER racial' (ie Indian couple, with a lover of a different race, in your case, 'white'), mine is 'INTRA racial', as my wife is a lovely young white lady, & her lover is also white; indeed a blond stud---a former boy friend of hers. Again discretion is paramount, as, despite my wife & her lover being white, they appreciate the Indian mind-set (ie issues of family shame etc), & NO one knows about the sex sessions they have once a week. Naturally I watch & 'enjoy myself' openly before them!
I think it fair to say, (& I've heard it very often), Indian men are natural cuckolds, & their wives, be they Indian or white, DO know that in terms of penis size, their husbands can only seldom compare with the size of the white male penis!
Try the video approach as mentioned above; as I said, the fact that the 2 of you talk about your feelings means that you're nearly there!
GO for it!
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