Over the last 15 years I have done a lot of research and exploring of the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle. Thankfully, a lot of this exploration has been done together with my wife in the form of her taking lovers to have joyful passionate, intimate sex with me watching and joining in!
I’ve corresponded and exchanged a lot with husbands similar to me who share their wives. I am also the first filter with potential lovers who want to fuck my wife. Through this, I’ve noticed a lot of “symbols” or symbolic acts that come up over and over again as part of the lifestyle and I’d like to share my perspective on them.
I guess we should start with the most powerful symbol of them all; THE WEDDING RING. Of course my wife wears her wedding ring while she is fucking other men. I love this for two reasons; first, it shows clearly that she is still my wife and we will return to being a couple after the lover leaves. Secondly, it shows that, despite being married and expected to be faithful by society, my wife chooses to fuck other men. We have had periods of monogamy during our marriage but the 5 sweetest word I’ve ever heard were recently whispered to me by my wife when she was fucking Mr. 9 inch; “I LOVE FUCKING OTHER MEN!” Of course she does this with my encouragement and blessing. So we need to combine the visible wedding ring on her finger and all it symbolizes with some powerful visual images:
- her hand with wedding ring clearly visible wrapped around another mans cock stroking it to hardness so he can fuck her
- her hand with wedding ring visible wrapped around his cock while she is eagerly sucking it
- wedding ring visible as she inserts his cock into her pussy
-wedding ring visible as she strokes his face or on the back of his head as they engage in deep, soulful intimate kissing
- wedding ring visible with her hand on his ass, pulling him inside her, especially at the moment he begins to fill her with sperm
BARE HOTWIFE FEET - Another symbol that is very powerful for me and seems to be with a lot of my wife’s lovers and fans here are her feet. For many cuckolds and wifesharers like me, we all seem to lover and adore our wives’ feet. I get so many comments about her feet! In the summertime, I get a real thrill out of putting an anklet around her right ankle and a few toe rings when she is wearing sandals. For those “in the know” this is the symbol of a hotwife and says “I have sex with other men so chat me up”. I don’t know how many people really know about the symbol but of course I like being with my wife in public when she has a visible symbol that tells people she is a hotwife who fucks other men. I’m always hoping that people (especially men)will notice and give a little smile. I’m so proud of my wife and the fact that she fucks other men, I find it a turn on if others know! One of my wife’s lovers was a married colleague from work. His wife found out and threw a big fit and spoke to some people at her work about it. Of course now everyone knows that he fucked my wife! I love it! I love visiting her at her work and knowing that they all know my wife fucked another man but we’re still happily married. I love to see her feet while she is being fucked by a lover in missionary position. My wife has lovely feet and they look so hot bouncing up and down in time with the thrusts of the lover who is fucking her. I love to see a lover put her legs over his shoulders to get his cock up against her cervix and watch him kiss her feet or suck and nibble on her toes. A few times I have seen her stroke a lovers cock with her foot. Wow. But the best symbol of all is watching her toes curl in pleasure while another man is fucking her! As soon as her toes begin to curl, I know that his cock is bringing her to an orgasm. Sometimes I will grab her feet and stroke them as she is being fucked. My wife is fortunate that she has very shapely and attractive feet by nature. She also has no problem with callouses or any other blemish, just soft, feminine hotwife feet. We both like for her to be completely naked when she has sex with another man. We’re not into hose or lingerie or wearing high heels while being fucked etc. We like for my wife and her lover to be completely naked because it maximizes skin on skin contact.
Related to this topic of course is the MISSIONARY POSITION. I’ve noticed that most men with hotwives have a clear preference for seeing their wives be fucked in missionary. I love it because my wife must lay back and spread her legs. This is an invitation that says very clearly, “although you are not my husband, I want you to fuck me!” The symbolism of the spread legs is very powerful particularly if, as usually happens, she grabs the lovers bare cock with her wedding ring hand and personally inserts it into her vagina. This position has something slightly submissive about it. Another great aspect of this position is that it invites lots of kissing. There is nothing that will turn fucking into making love faster than deep, loving and intense kissing during the sex act. In missionary, I get to see my wife’s hands on her lovers back – stroking and caressing him while he makes love to her. I get to see his balls bouncing against her ass as he fucks her and know that the sperm that is currently in those balls will soon be inside my wife! Of course seeing her hands (with wedding ring) on his ass as she encourages his thrusts is heavenly. Finally, as we all intuitively know, missionary is the position that maximizes the depth and amount of sperm that remains in the vagina. Don’t get me wrong, I have never had the fantasy of my wife being pregnant by someone else and yet – I love that missionary seems to be about mating and at the moment where the lover is ejaculating into my wife in missionary – it seems so complete somehow. They are connected and mated for a brief, very sexy moment in time. His sperm splashing against her cervix seals the deal!
This brings us to the next symbolic act, the INTERNAL EJACULATION. It totally turns me on when my wife eagerly accepts her lovers sperm in her pussy. When I hear her moaning and encouraging him to cum inside her it’s all I can do to not shoot my load myself. I love knowing that even after he leaves, his sperm (mixed with mine) will continue to swim inside her for a day or two. An internal ejaculation is about the most intimate act between a man and a woman and as we both love intimacy, this is important. For that brief moment in time, while his sperm is splashing against and coating my wife’s cervix, they are as connected as can be. It also has a bit of a sense of “ownership”, like while his sperm is still swimming inside her, she is partially “his”. And let me be clear, when a lover cums inside my wife, I will ALWAYS lick her CREAMPIE afterwards. I don’t do this because it is humiliating or to “clean her”, I do it because tasting their mixed juices fucking turns me on and I love tasting the proof that he just came inside my wife.
Creampies are an extreme turn on, but there is another symbolic act that is equally as hot for me and that is SPERM EATING. Watching my wife lovingly and devotedly sucking on another mans cock until he empties his balls into her eager mouth is just slightly nasty! Seeing her lay there patiently waiting as spurt after spurt of sperm go in her mouth and when her lover is finally done, swallowing it all is hot. I think eating another man’s sperm is quite intimate and again, somewhat submissive.
Another great symbol in wifesharing/cuckolding is of course the MARITAL BED. Certainly not every lover who has fucked my wife over the years has been invited into our marital bed but ther have been a few where there was special chemistry, intimacy and fondness that we have taken into our bed to fuck my wife.
So what are your favorites symbols or symbolic acts for cuckolding/wifesharing?
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