I agree that a woman is ready when she is ready. Nevertheless, there are things you can do to speed up the process. Other guys showing some interest in her would bring the fantasy to reality to some degree. I guess I wouldn't find someone off the web to do that though... Because you really don't know who these people are and etc. Also, if one of these guys turns out to be a jerk and he spills the beans, you will get the opposite reaction out of her.
I would suggest more role-play type of activities between you and her before I would suggest the seduction scenario. Take it one step at a time... Go out for drinks and ask her to wear clothes she might wear if she were looking to get picked up....and/or ask her to take off her ring. Ask her to tell you which guys she thinks are sexy when you go out with her... And, enjoy the process!
I'm sure people have many other suggestions.
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