I did not think I would ever write something likes this but I thought why no. It may help others find their niche. I speak for only for myself but I think you would find many ladies will share or at least relate to my point of view.
I am happily married and have a very supportive husband. Yes, we play but it’s more than that. Before marriage I was dating another long term boyfriend. I was in this relationship when I met my husband to be. He was a young mining engineer who spent a lot of time away from his home. I met him quite innocently and ran into him a couple of times. He asked me out and I refused as I had a steady. He was home for about another 10 days and when I met him again he asked again and I relented. He took me out and we had a good time. He was generous and fun. I enjoyed all the fuss and one date turned into another and so on. On the forth date I slept with him. It was incredible. He pleasured me over and over and I wondered what I had missed out on. I saw him and had lots of sex over the next 3 days before he went back to work for a period of 6 weeks.
My boyfriend knew nothing so I continued as before. I thought it was just a fling and convinced myself I would never see this lover again. Wrong, he returned, called me and we took up where we left off. This went on for quite a while and I never let on to my boyfriend. It was so exciting and I enjoyed it so much. My lover’s job changed and he was going to be home more often but not full time so I broke up with the boyfriend and moved into my lovers unit. Life was great and we married a year later.
When the situation settled and Todd (that’s my lover, now my husband) came and went with his job which although better than before still required him to be away about half of the time. Our sex was great but I missed a regular steady diet.
It was then I started to think about it. It wasn’t the raw sex I missed when Todd was away but all the trimmings that went with a romantic relationship. When we met he wined and dined me, took me to shows, arranged champagne picnics, bought me chocolates etc The mind blowing sex came after that and it seemed my body and mind was ready to receive it and let all inhabitations go and go it did almost animal with lust. Sorry for that description but I think that’s what it’s about.
You know the best thing about a man like Todd, he said go out and have some fun. Do what you want and when I come home than I will take my chances that the welcome mat will be out. He is a confident man, that is, in his job and in the bedroom.
So that is what I do. When he is away I accept offers of companionship where it entails the chase and excitement that I craved. If I meet someone and both of us are interested then I will go out and enjoy myself. I am not interested with straight sex. I could get that anywhere. I want the dinner, the dancing, and entertainment. It’s about the chase. After that the sex will be good. I don’t hide what I am after and am never afraid to terminate the date if it’s not going where I want it to. So over the years I have had numerous lovers, all of which my husband knows about and some he has met. I tell him quite a few details like where we go and what we did. I tell him about the sex but not blow by blow accounts. He does not want that and I think it cheapens the beautiful experience.
We have fitted in having a family and even had a close shave when I (we) thought one of my lovers may have been the father of my unborn child. I did not realise I was pregnant until too late. But true love and strong sperm prevailed and our baby son had fair complexion like my husband and I. My lover at the time was of Greek decent and with dark olive skin and jet black hair. This boy has also grown to be the image of my husband.
That’s my situation and it’s been good for us.
I never see or have anything to do with another man when my husband is home. I don’t run out the minute he has left either. At present I keep company with a man who I will call when I feel the urge when Todd is away. He will take me out and we will have a good time. We could have dinner, theatre, have a day out or even go shopping. We will have sex but these outings are like a lead up. It’s like the foreplay to a beautiful result. We see each other a few times while my husband is away, not all the time and that’s enough for me. It works for my present lover as well. Over the years if a lover wanted more then I simply terminated the relationship and waited for someone else that took my fancy. I have nothing to hide from my husband so there is no threat to our marriage by a jilted lover situation. I have found most men are only too happy with the arrangements. After all they get great sex and no responsibility or commitment other than giving a lady a good time.
I would not say that I would have stay monogamous if my husband was home all the time like in many marriages but I am sure I would not have strayed very much.
He is extremely well paid and this lets us live a very nice lifestyle. I don’t work and have help with the house and family which gives me a lot of free time. Also it gives free time to both my husband and I when he is home.
As soon as my husband arrives home he wants me which is quite natural as his only usual outlet while away is masturbation. We also use the internet and Skype and pleasure ourselves while we watch each other. It’s not the best sex but at least he is not as alone like before this variation.
So when he returns usually I am ready for him but once he did arrive earlier than usual by a couple of days when weather forced the mine to close. I did not know he was arriving and had been with a lover and I had no time to shower and ready myself. I begged him to wait but he insisted and made love to me like a man possessed. He said later it was good for him as it was like when he met me and I was still having sex with my previous boyfriend. So now sometimes I set things up so he gets to relive it again. Not every time but sometimes. So you see we both get our kicks.
He has had other woman a few times over the years. Never when he is on a mine site but at conferences and some have been call girls provided by the company. This is not a problem for me as I have always felt he misses out a lot by having to be away.
I love oral sex, both giving and receiving it. I particularly like it when a man goes down on me after he has had sex with me. Todd is a champion at this, in fact it was he and his skill that turned me on to this. It shocked me the first time but I soon got over that and enjoyed it ever since. The orgasms I have like this last a long time and seem to come from so deep inside and just keep coming. Some men I have had will not do this and I respect their choice but I think it’s the mark of a good lover to give their all to their sex partner. In return I will let them do just about anything to me which I don’t have to describe. I will just let you imagine.
Neither Todd nor I wants to have threesomes or for him to watch me with someone else. I have asked him as even though it is not my scene. I thought it may go some way to making it up to him for being so considerate to me. I am very glad he feels that way.
I think that is all I want to say. In my mind its finding what suits you, your partner, being open and making the best of the situation.
FUCK MY WIFE!
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