What everyone needs to know about this is, your mate met you and fell in love with you, most likely with their mind far from this topic when you were courting, dating, or what have you,
now with time, you have decided that you would like to open up about your kinks, or fantasies.
keep this in mind though,
and be ready to share what I say to your mate.
Everybody has their turn on's and also have their turn off's.
we can't help it, if let's say, lingerie turns us on. the woman may hate wearing lingerie, but is willing to put some on maybe one time for her man.
that doesn't mean she will ever do it again.
or she may say, there is no way I'll ever wear that". then what?
she will either be mad because you asked something that made her feel like she wasn't enough on her own. or maybe she puts it on and doesn't feel comfortable about wearing it.
even though she hated it, she tried it out of love. now if she is asked to wear it again, it's going to really start to cause a problem.
that would make the woman feel like you were either tired of who she was when you met, and was wanting someone different, or at the very least you're being selfish and not respecting their personal views on the matter.
but
what if they loved it and became a person who changed and started wearing slutty clothes all the time too. or demanded the man to let's say wear women clothes or ask him to make out with a guy, and he is as straight as can be. he says, No".
Now what happens later down the road if say, she has a job with a bi guy, is she now going to cheat? her man may think , I am not willing to do what she is asking, now she is talking to this bi guy, I bet she is doing her fantasy behind my back!.
now a blow up is going to happen.
all because a fantasy was brought to the table.
you need to know, and let your mate know the honest truth about what is closer to your heart, and what means the most to you. the Fantasy, or them.
but also know this, you may get into this fantasy and realize it's fun or you don't even like it, but your mate finds that they love it so much that it becomes more dear to their heart than the relationship.
Remember this, even though the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, and makes you want to run through it barefoot, doesn't mean that their isn't broken glass just right below the soil.
sex acts are like drugs, sometimes 2 people can pass a joint back and forth, and get high, then go about their lives,
but others who just try crack one time end up hooked and their lives spiral out of control. be careful and cover all your bases before this fantasy idea gets out of control.
Sex can be awesome, but it can't fill the heart like your mate, at least it shouldn't.
everyone needs to take a break from it from time to time, and take the time to remember the person who you met. not just what they have become for you. but so you can show them what they truly mean to you.
always set a time a side, or a date every month, or 2, just to have a normal loving relationship and make sure that you are still both comfortable with the way things are.
in order for a relationship to last a life time, you both need to be on the same page, or at least in the same book. if you two get to many chapters away from each other, then things will spiral out of control until the love of your life is gone.
I really hope this helps a lot of you out.
always remember,
Love is more valuable than sex.
if your mate, or yourself wish to put the brakes on, you need to honer them, and stop.
it will be very hard to stop if you don't make sure that you reconnect with the person who you fell in love with.
so set up a date with your mate and take time time to have a romantic evening, tell them about why you first fell in love with them, and what they mean to you. let them know, that they mean more to you than all of the fantasies in the world.
after your romantic night together, talk about the lifestyle, and see if you are both still on the same page with it, then set up another romantic evening to do the same thing, about 1 to 2 months later. that way you both stay connected
and keep your love protected.
until then enjoy the ride this crazy life has to offer. Peace..Pokerjoker
Peace and good luck"
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