My wife and I are still very new to all of this. We wanted to experiment with her having a boyfriend. We have been married for 5 years. Anyway, she found someone she liked and has been seeing him for a while and long enough for him to be her 'steady' and someone she's planning on seeing more in the future.
They have moved on from using condoms. She hated condoms when we first had sex and once she was sure he was clean, he cums inside her. She has one of those slow release capsules in her arm which stops her getting pregnant. This contraception has also stopped her virtually having periods. So, she can have sex whenever she wants.
We've been talking about the next steps, and one is that she'd very much like is for me to meet him.
Right now, I don't watch or even go with her. She goes out with him solo and then tells me about it afterwards.
She has sent and brought home photos on her phone. So, I have seen what they do but not actually doing it. She has pictures of his cock and of it in her pussy also her mouth. She tells how he licks her expertly and has shown me pictures of his head between her legs and his tongue poking in her pussy .
They also send texts with photos to each other. She has me read them. He describes what he will do to her next time and she asks him to do special things, things that we have never down.
She also comes home with marks on her body from where he has slapped her, mainly her buttocks. She tells me that she likes him doing that and it makes her orgasm quickly and much harder. Her nipples are sore and red from pinching and biting. He leaves marks on her neck where he has sucked and sort of bit her.
Our friends think it is me doing it. He also put his hands around her neck during sex. This is the stuff she shows and describes to me. She is adamant that she doesn’t want me to do those things and to remain gentle with her as I have always been.
We're both young when we met and then married and were sexually inexperienced. She says that’s why she doesn't feel comfortable with me watching yet, and I believe her. I think she wants me to meet him so she doesn't feel like she's hiding that side of her life.
She knows she has my full consent, but it is so he and I can get a better understanding of who the other person is. I think it just makes it 'whole' for her. For my wife, the sex is different from what she gets from me and that’s why she has a boyfriend. We call him boyfriend and not lover because she says she does not love him in anyway.
I'm interested to meet him too, just in a true interest, but also because it's exciting for me to better imagine him and her together. Also, I think it's a step towards watching, which is something I really want to do at some point. Honestly, I'm not sure I'm ready for that just now as I think these baby steps are actually really good.
I am SUPER nervous as well. I worry about the inevitable jealousy that will come from watching. Maybe even fearful of deeper jealousy when realizing that this is a real person verses a fantasy in my head.
I also worry about what if I don't like him for some reason, or he doesn't like me . There's a separation now because it's all through her, so I just hear the best parts of each other, but not sure how that would go once I meet him.
We have talked about this, and she's been super reassuring. That’s why I am looking for some reassurance from others in this. She is open to some small interaction during this meeting like sitting with him and maybe kissing. But she wants it primarily to be like friends hanging out verses anything sexual.
I am wondering how this will go and I need the courage to even go through with it. Maybe it will be better to just leave it the way it is now and not meet him. My wife won’t be happy with that though.
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