My wife has a long-term boyfriend (almost 3 years) who she is deeply in love with. No, I’m not denied sex, nor has my wife expressed that she loves her boyfriend more than me. In short, we have a solid, loving marriage.
My wife, Lucia firmly believes in marriage and would never cheat. I am almost 25 years older than Lucia, and my libido has waned over the years. I’m happy with sex about every 2-3 weeks on average, which had been a bit frustrating for Lucia, since she has a very high libido.
About 3.5 years ago, Lucia went out dancing with her female friends (I’m not much of a dancer), and she met Adam, a young guy around Lucia’s age. He’s an excellent dancer, so Lucia l asked permission to go on dance dates with Adam, which I happily gave. For several months, Adam took Maricel out on innocent dates to dance clubs and dinner, and they became very close friends. Adam sort of saw me as an uncle or mentor and addressed me as “sir.”
One day, Adam brought Lucia home late, and she tearfully said that she must stop seeing Adam. She told me that after dancing, they parked for a while, and he kissed her. When we talked more, it was clear that they kissed rather passionately. Lucia admitted that she enjoyed kissing Adam and became very aroused by him, which is why she decided that the relationship must stop. Indeed, when Lucia got home, she was so turned on, she practically raped me. We made love passionately.
After about a week, I could see that she really missed Adam. So, I asked her if she’d like to start seeing him again. Lucia said that nothing would make her happier, but that she just couldn’t trust herself because she was very attracted to Adam, and didn’t want any possibility of cheating on me. At that point, I expressed my belief that it’s only “cheating” if it happens secretly or without my approval, so I asked her, “What if I gave you permission to have Adam as a boyfriend?”
At first, Lucia couldn’t believe her ears, but once I explained that I’m willing to give her this gift because of my love for her, she took me seriously. I then said that my only conditions were that we would never have any secrets, no details are off limits, and that I’m always her first priority in her life. Lucia happily agreed, and then called Adam for her first real date.
The first time, after our understanding, Adam took Lucia dancing, and then (after clearing it with me) she went to a hotel with him. They made love for the first time, and he brought her home around 3:00 am. She came home with a glow on her face and, again, practically raped me. She said he talked dirty to her and kept telling me to “fuck her” over and over again.
Since Adam is a student and works only part time, he couldn’t afford to keep taking Lucia to hotels, so I suggested that they simply come home together after the date and stay in one of our extra bedrooms.
To make a long story short, Adam has become like a member of the family. He has a very high libido, like Lucia l, and they make love many times a week. He often stays with us for 2-3 days at a time, and sleep together. Lucia l uses a depo shot for contraception. It’s an injection every 3 months. So, there’s no worries about pregnancy. He can get hard again very quickly which I can only dream about. He can ejaculate 4 or 5 times in a night and I hear them going at it for hours.
I’m never denied, as such, and Lucia and I make love as much as I want or am able. For me about once a week is fine. And there’s no overt humiliation involved, though it’s arousing to me in knowing that, by default, Adam has become Lucia’s primary sex partner.
Lucia isn’t shy about expressing her deep feelings of love for Adam, and I get excited in seeing that twinkle in her eyes when he’s around her. But I also feel that Lucia’s love for me has deepened, fuelled by her intense gratitude for my acceptance of her relationship with Adam. When they are together he can’t keep his hands off her and her off him. They kiss and fondle in front of me which is very rewarding and satisfying for me.
As for my relationship with Adam, he’s extremely respectful of our marriage and the fact that I’m Lucia l’s priority as her husband. He often helps around the house with chores and has expressed his love for Maricel. It’s definitely way beyond the sex.
FUCK MY WIFE!
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